Child Custody in Seattle, WA.

Child Custody in Seattle, WA.

If you want to get custody of your child and are getting divorced in Seattle, WA, you may find that the law is sometimes puzzling. Here is some information to help you navigate this issue.

If you need help in your child custody case, please consult a good attorney.

The Difference Between Sole Custody and Joint Custody.

A court does not always have to grant sole custody to one parent. In fact, it is usually rare for a court to do so. The legal system operates under the assumption that  a child needs both parents in his or her life. For this reason, a court will usually grant some form of custody to both parents. This is called “joint custody.” Depending on whether the joint custody involved is physical or legal (as explained below), either the child must live with each parent part of the time or else the parents must negotiate and come to an agreement on major decisions affecting the child's life.

The Difference Between Physical and Legal Custody

The law recognizes two different classes of sole custody: physical and legal. If the court only allows a child to live with one parent at all times, this is called “sole physical custody.” In this case, the other parent can still visit the child but must do so in the home of the custodial parent. If a parent gets to make decisions in the child's life involving religion, education, medical care, or other major concerns regardless of the other parent's wishes, this is called “sole legal custody.” It is possible for one parent to have sole legal and the other to have sole physical custody or for one or the other (or both) to be held jointly.

Child Custody: How to Get It.

When the court decides on what kind of custody to give to each parent, it will try to determine this based on what it thinks is in the best interest of the child.  For this reason, it will often take the following considerations into account.
ñ     Does the parent asking for custody want the child to have a relationship with the other parent? If so, the court will be more likely to grant custody. On the other hand, if the court feels that the parent is asking for custody only because he or she wants to keep the child from the other parent, it will be less likely to grant it.
ñ     Has there been child abuse or domestic violence by either of the parents in the past? If so, the court is much more likely to grant custody to the parent who did not commit the abuse.
ñ     What is the relationship between each of the parents and the child? If the child has a more significant emotional connection to one parent, or if one parent is better able to take care of the child financially, the court will be more likely to grant custody to that parent.
ñ     What are the child's wishes? This is especially important with older children, such as teenagers.


If you would like to know more about child custody proceedings in Seattle, WA, please consult a good attorney.